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Next program starts November 30!

In the meantime, if you'd like to set up your own private RRR strategy session with Shawn, or have your own copy of the 'spellbinding' 5-Part Series. "Radical Relationship Relief: 6 Keys to Dependable Peace and Delicious Connection," please click here!

After all your work on yourself, do you STILL sometimes feel angry, fearful, lonely, or sad —clueless about how to shift deeply entrenched patterns in one or more important relationships?

Whether it's a Client, Romantic Partner, Parent, Child, a Group, or YOURSELF ... do you feel hopelessly misunderstood or unfairly judged in an area where you just want peace, fun, respect, collaboration, or love?

And despite your best intentions and a sincere wish to be of service, do you find yourself closing your heart -- wanting to scream, walk out, huddle in the corner, or choke the very person with whom you long to experience harmony, synergy, joy?

Shawn for webinar square (2) (1)If you are just SO ready for some RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF ... Then I have really HAPPY NEWS: Whatever or Whoever Upsets, Scares, or Saddens You Absolutely holds the Key to Greater Peace, Freedom, and Happiness--and a Warm Dependable Connection to Yourself and the very Person or Situation that Triggered You (once you know how it works)


(At least it did for me and continues to for my clients.)

With this MAJOR SHIFT in Paradigm, 'Problems' Look and Feel Radically Different

  • Hopeful
  • Solvable
  • Friendlier
  • and MUCH More Fun

Understanding what I call "The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness” was--for me--the beginning of the end of fear, anger, sadness, and the hell of regret. The reason I call this a Paradigm Shift is because this 'happy symmetry' changed my entire relationship to life--in a very short time--and does the same for those in my Groups and Individual work.       Shawn



* "My life is and has taken a dramatic turn with just this little bit of information; I speculate what might it be if I continue with a little real work. I love all that you've provided, and the open-hearted way you come across to us.  What don't I love about you?  For Heaven's Sake!


* "You are beyond an inspiration, Shawn….  You are a great wise compassionate guide...   with the results for me of relationships flowing, of joy, of ease, of relationships not being so entangled, a deeper awareness of how our stories get in the way and the how to make inner change with an outer impact." Sara; International Filmmaker

* "Thank you so much Shawn, for your guidance and your time! It cleared out a lot! WOW.  I am looking forward to the group session!  Rick, Environmental Entrepreneur


Results you Can Expect from this Ground-Breaking Program:


  1. Major Shifts in Your Relationship to Relationships and to LIFE itself:
  • Stop Waiting for your situation to change
  • Put Happiness back in your Court
  • Notice a refreshing compassion for yourself and others
  • Act in loving new ways to old familiar triggers
  • Move from Reliable Anger, Anxiety, Heaviness to Reliable Clarity, Joy, Lightness (and FUN)!
  • BE the Relationship of Your Dreams
  1.  Your own discovery (don’t just believe me!) that:
  • Painful issues are happening FOR you, not just TO you,
  • You don't need the “terrible awful THEM” to change for you to be happy,
  • You no longer feel clueless about how to handle situations you used to dread.
  • Your shift from upset into peace, curiosity, fearlessness can be instantaneous.
  1. A Dependable Peace and Delicious Connection via The 6 Keys:
  • Harvest Hidden Riches from Your Judgments, Annoyances, & Fear
  • Efficiently Shift Regret, Indecision, Needs, & Shoulds to their Happy Flip Side
  • Use Defensiveness, Offensiveness, and Vulnerability as Personalized Teachers of Inner Peace
  • Eradicate fear of intimidation, retaliation,' seeing the other (and Yourself) clearly
  • Redefine Forgiveness and Amends for True Freedom
  • A WHOLE NEW WORLD: Find that a NO is Equal to (or better than) a YES
Join Now ~ Best Value
Join Now ~ Pay in 4 Installments
Join Now ~ Pay in 12 Installments

Your investment: $498 for this comprehensive 12-module program or 4 installments of $124.50 each.

If you would prefer an Individual Intensive, or if you would like to combine individualized focus with the group program, please click here!

RRR Group Intensive Syllabus


  • Schedule your Private RRR Coaching Call with me!
  • Keep your momentum going and get support with the Radical Relationship Relief by bringing your gifts to Private Discussion Forum will open July 7.
  • Let me and the group start to support your challenges, celebrations, questions, and shifts!
  • Take part in poll of group members about optimal timing for our summer Kick-Off as well as Fall Coaching Calls.

Week of July 14--Summer Kick-Off VIRTUAL RETREAT I! (*All Calls available for replay, or in case you cannot attend)

  • Fun Virtual Retreat CALL—Get to know each other;
  • Make sure you are comfortable with 4 Questions to start your summer practice in earnest,
  • Get your First RRR Buddy assigment, plus first exercise to do together (you will work with 4 different Buddies over the course of the Group Intensive, and have access to others for increased support/inquiry),
  • Buddies schedule mutually-agreeable times to facilitate each other over the summer.
  • Shawn and volunteer demonstrate buddy exercise--simple ‘YELLOW CARD’ facilitation.

Week of July 21 - VIRTUAL RETREAT II--Get solid with Turn-Arounds and Get on your Way!

  • Support your Summer Practice by getting SUPER comfortable with turn-arounds
  • Shawn and volunteer demonstrate partner practice the rest of the Summer
  • Comprehensive Q and A with Shawn to support your 5-Week “Relax into Happy Symmetry Summer"

July 24-August 31 (Relax into Your "Happy Symmetry Summer"):

  • Relax into you RRR Skills and build Comfort Level with The Work and The Keys (with ongoing support from me and group),
  • Meet Periodically with Partners;
  • Claim your fun bonuses and bonus sessions,
  • Keep posting your celebrations, questions, insights, worksheets, and challenges on RRR Private Discussion Forum,
  • Report on Buddy-Work exercises and questions via Forum,
  • Attend Shawn's Bonus UN-LINK WHAT YOU THINK Coaching Call with as your mid-summer check-in with Q & A plus LIVE support for you RRR Buddy Work,
  • Periodic articles or MP3s of facilitations as we LIVE our new ways of being for the rest of the summer.

Week of September 1- November 17 --Fall Kick-Off for 10 weeks of coaching calls/focused partner work

  • Weekly Coaching Calls that include teaching/Q and Q/LIVE facilitations/mentoring/role plays (for 10 weeks; members will be polled to determine optimal meeting times; all sessions recorded and downloadable so you can keep them as long as you want);
  • Focus on the 6 Keys and deepening comfort level and REAL LIFE applictations of The Work/Reliable Symmetry.
  • Continue to Fall in love with our challenges, our dear thoughts, and each other via the Forum;
  • Enjoy remaining optional bonuses (INCLUDING SHAWN'S FALL RETREAT!)

IMPORTANT NOTES: 1) I will publish syllabus with all dates after polling GROUP INTENSIVE members via special software 2)  I hope to use software that allows us to get into pairs and groups on the phone, so our teaching/coaching calls can be interactive. 3)  All payments and payment plans must be paid or set up for automatic withdrawl up as part of registration (please contact me if you need special arrangements). 4)  Because you just had the equivalent of 5 2-hour sessions with me, that was your ‘money-back guarantee’ period.  (Those involved with the webinar know that I OVER-DELIVER on value! I will make sure you get what you came for, and I don't want the delayed fall start-date to create attrition. If you weren't signed on for the webinar and want to discuss a guarantee period, please contact me.)

Your Radical Relationship Relief

  • 2 Virtual Retreats and 10 LIVE 2-hour Tele-Workshop/Skill-Building Coaching Calls (includes LIVE facilitations in The Work, and Q & A/Interactive Practice/Celebrations about your real-life experiences living in The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness).
  • Fun, Intimate Online Forum to share insights, celebrations, questions, challenges, outcomes.
  • Support from ME and also from group members to TRULY Shift your most painful or stubborn issues.
  • Recordings of All Calls available for replay, or for those who cannot attend.
  • Downloadable Handouts for Individual and Partner Work
  • Assigned Buddies for accountability, practice, and support.
  • Opportunity to Create Mastermind groups around specific challenges (for example, Parenting/Marriage)
  • "THE PAIN STOPS HERE" emails from me (sometimes including an MP3 or PDF download)
  • Specific invitations, insights, and suggested exercises to undertake with Self or a Buddy around YOUR situation.
  • Finale CELEBRATION Call to Enhance Community and Reflect on Progress

All Members get ONE Complimentary Private Coaching Call with Shawn, plus 30% discount on additional private sessions.


If you would prefer an Individual Intensive, or if you would like to combine individualized focus with the group program, please click here!

And Some Amazing Bonuses!

bullet-heartSHAWN'S BONUS #1 ~ Extra 2-hour Unlink-What-You-Think LIVE Call during your Happy Symmetry Summer (Specific Coaching, Facilitation, Difficult-Situation Role Plays, Popcorn Facilitations)

bullet-heart SHAWN'S BONUS #2 (As-Needed Emergency Support) ~ One Individual 30-minute-shift call ("OUCH! It hurts and I’m clueless--How Can I Approach this Differently?) during the 6 months after course starts. (Calls take place immediately if I can or by mutual agreement as soon as possible).

bullet-heart SHAWN'S BONUS #3 (Retreat Discount) ~ 30% off attendance at one of my retreats (or  attend a Free 3-Hour Virtual Group-Retreat via Google plus or other group venue - for those who cannot attend in person or if the retreat is not being offered). 

bullet-heartJean Grover SPECIAL BONUS #1 ~Discovering The Ageless Quotient – a 4-week course from Encore Era, with Jean Grover  Do like I did and let the Reliable Symmetry of Happiness make you younger and younger!  Learn how your functional/biological age can be a fraction of your chronological age! Is your lifestyle erasing years for you or causing you to age faster? This powerful Four-Week course will cause you to rethink and look forward to your later years while providing the formula for agelessness. Jean Grover helps women redefine the 3rd Chapter of life into a new Era of energy, vitality, discovery, and purpose. Jean has a BA in Communications/Psychology and is an ordained spiritual guide. Bonus Value: $229. Learn more about Jean and her work by going to http://www.encore-era.com/ 

bullet-heartSPECIAL BONUS #2~The Secret Sauce to Attracting (or Co-Existing with) A Man Who Honors, Supports and Cherishes You – a one-hour teleclass from author and coach Emily Nature.  Finally get that RRR you've been working toward! Gain clarity on what you really, really, really want in your love life, find out what has kept you stuck where you are right now, discover what it would take for you to bring your desires to fruition, and put the creation process into motion right now. Emily Nature is the author of the forthcoming book, The Magnetic Woman: Secrets to Effortless Attraction and Dating with Irresistible Confidence. As a specialist in love, femininity and pleasure, Emily helps women who are sick and tired of being single to effortlessly attract their dream partners, or women who are unsatisfied with their current love life to enjoy delicious relationships with men. Bonus Value: $99. Contact Emily to find out more or schedule a free consultation at emilynature@gmail.com

bullet-heartNed Johnson SPECIAL BONUS #3 ~ Complimentary copy of When Gulls Fly Low Relax into a good book this Happy Symmetry Summer! When Gulls Fly Low is the story of one man’s relentless pursuit of inner integrity and how it affects his own life and the lives of everyone he touches. It is a story of dreams, love, tragedy, healing, forgiveness, and personal transformation. It will warm your heart, open your eyes, and show you how wisdom and magic can transform even the greatest challenges into triumphs. In the end, you will see how we are all involved in benevolent conspiracies that form the dramas of our lives.

Ned Johnson has lived a long and varied life. Throughout it all he has acquired a penetrating insight into what it is to be human, and how we all create our own lives in a most miraculous manner. He has written and published over a dozen books, but When Gulls Fly Low is his favorite. It best exemplifies his views on life, the universe, and everything.

Though he has sold many copies of both the printed and electronic versions of this novel, he is very pleased to have this opportunity to put this story in your hands at no cost to you. (You can choose to receive either a complimentary ebook or get an autographed hard copy for half-price.) May you enjoy the reading, and like so many others, find your life changed for the better in unexpected ways.​ ​

This bonus will include an engaging, LIVE FORGIVENESS Q & A with Ned and Shawn that will take you more deeply into the radical approach to forgiveness you will be learning and putting into practice in your life via your Group or Individual Intensive.​ Bonus Value: $120. You can find out more about the book, Ned, and his other offerings at http://nedswords.com/when-gulls-fly-low/

bullet-heartElena Estanol SPECIAL BONUS #4 ~ Uncloaking Your Luminescent Being: Healing Body, Mind, and Spirit, with Elena Estanol Ph.D., M.F.A. Let your Happy Symmetry connect you with something MORE! In this powerful master class you will:

  • Create a vision for your life that excites and inspires you
  • Begin to uncloak your luminescent being from the muck and stories that keep you in the dark--Even in the face of loss, injury, tragedy.
  • Learn the # 1 key to connecting to your luminous being and manifesting your desires
  • Learn a powerful strategy to make the right decisions
  • Transform your fears, flaws and weaknesses into your most powerful assets
  • 2 Keys to upgrade your system and quantum leap your body (and spirit) into Health, Confidence and Alignment with your soul purpose.
  • Connect to your true self and learn how other luminaries became so bright and how you can as well!

Elena Estanol is an author, Intuitive Business and Peak Performance Coach, and Spiritual Guide. She has experienced the power of re-connecting and re-aligning mind, body & spirit through several severe life experiences (awakenings) that included recovery from an eating disorder, an auto-immune disorder and a life-changing injury. Bonus Value: $179. Please visit Elena's website to find out more! www.luminescent-life.com

bullet-heart Marina Ornes SPECIAL BONUS #5~ Manifesting with Moon Cycles Manifesting with Moon Cycles is a monthly program that works with natural cycles of the Moon including a brand new astrologically-aligned guided meditation for each New and Full Moon. Extend your fun this Happy Symmetry Summer! This soul-supporting manifestation program will help you:

  • optimize the natural cycles of change so you are ahead of the game
  • integrate the healing opportunities at deep levels
  • manifest what you want so you can make the difference you are here to make

Marina Ormes RN, HN-BC is a board-certified holistic nurse and an evolutionary astrologer. She is the author of Cycles of Healing: Personal Transformation in Relationship to a Living Cosmos, the Director of the Oregon Holistic Nurses Association and the founder of Astrology Heals. Marina helps visionaries and holistic healers connect with their own best path of mind/body/emotion/spirit healing so they can fully live a life of meaning and purpose. Bonus Value: $635.  Check out all Marina offers and learn more at http://astrologyheals.com/


“There is deep integrity, Shawn, in what you share ... It's palpable and permeates your words and actions. Your willingness to be both visible and vulnerable is a continual testimony of your dedication to 'walk your talk.' I also really appreciate your sense of humor that reads as kindness ... such a kind heart ❤ you have. So beautiful is The Work that you share. Thanks so much ... I value your stand and your commitment to truth, beauty and true care for us all ... it's a treasure.”   Donna Drozda, Visual Artist, Virgina Beach, Virginia
I'm in. I've drunk the Reliable Symmetry of Happiness kool aid. I want to immerse myself in it, become a skilled practitioner of it in my own mind and life, and pass it on to everyone I reach through Bright Line Eating to address the monkey mind that erupts when the crutch of food is no longer a go-to option. Susan Piece Thompson, Ph.D. , Neuroscientist, Professor in the Psychology of Sustained Weight Loss, CEO Bright Line Eating Solutions, Rochester NY
“Thank you for doing this group.  I think The Work is awesome and its clear that you are masterful with The Work from all the feedback I’ve heard from multiple people now and I think it could benefit everyone, and I don’t say that about many things.  I think that The Work is … well it’s phenomenal; it’s absolutely transformative. It doesn’t matter how enlightened you already are, you can go further with The Work. It can produce profound breakthroughs that you might not find any other way. It gets at stuff that we can very effectively avoid in the rest of our lives. The stuff we are conveniently avoiding--The Work will get at it. So Yeah, I highly recommend this.” (Recommending another group—not THIS exact one). Ryan Eliason, Internationally known marketing coach and author, The Social Entrepreneur Empowerment Network, Eugene Oregon
It is said that what we all want above all things are Love and Freedom. I advocate highly for Shawn’s ability to help guide you HOME to both! Her Commitment, Love and Skill, her Patience and Guidance, and especially her Courage are all for YOU and in service to YOUR HEALING. I love her and her work! If you’re ready to roll up your sleeves, and get to it, this is the place and Shawn is the person! I hope to see you at her next event!  Dr. Dale Korangy, Acupuncturist

This is soooo awesome! I feel really great right now! Thank you so much for facilitating my paradigm shift!  F. Author, Coach, and Blog Writer; California

One of the most loving things I did for myself was invest in sessions with Shawn. Her take on'The Work' Byron Katie is a god-send. Glad to hear she’s helping you too, brother.  P.  Spiritual Teacher, UK

Your Commitment

This Reliable Symmetry of Happiness skill set and mindset that you will begin to acquire almost immediately can never be lost. The shift into dependable peace and radical freedom becomes a living part of your relationship repertoire. While your relationships can start to change VERY quickly, and your participation continues for as long as you wish, this initial commitment really helps to ground you in this paradigm shift and in your own behavior changes.   So, for the individual program and those on a monthly program, I strongly suggest a mimimum 4-month commitment.  I am happy to divide that up to accommodate deadlines, etc., and will work out whatever you think best supports you.  Please feel free to email me at shawn@happysymmetry.com, or call me at 301-785-0545 if you want support or clarity around this wonderful gift to yourself.  

My Guarantee

By finding the Reliable Symmetry in whatever triggers you, you find the very person or situation that was making you crazy appears innocent ... lovable ... sometimes even KIND! You begin to see in them -- and in yourself -- the wise teacher you’ve been searching for. I guarantee it. For new participants, if you come to the events and work with a buddy and do not begin to experience this after the first month, you can write to me and describe what is happening for you, then have one problem-solving conversation around the issues you are experiencing.  If you still wish to withdraw you can get your money back. Just write in less than 30 days from your registration date. For those who registered directly from the RRR Webinar Series: Because you just had the equivalent of 5 2-hour sessions with me--more sessions than the normal guarantee includes--I consider that to have served as your ‘money-back guarantee’ period. In other words,  I don't want the adjusted summer dates to create attrition. If you are signing on after taking the RRR Webinar, I will take that as you already having begun that shift in your view of others' innocence from that event, and trust that you know I OVER-DELIVER on value and will make sure you get what you came for.  Thanks so much.  xox Shawn


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Shawn Neal Mahshie’s life work has facilitated critical shifts in perspective for individuals and couples, groups, schools, and even governments addressing stubborn long-term issues.

Her own rich experience emerging happily from severe co-dependence, chronic illness and pain, divorce, and food addiction–largely via her years of training under Byron Katie–means she is knows among her clients for facilitating on a deep and fearless level, with much warmth and compassion.  Quick to make connections and spot her own stories as well as those of her clients, she supports herself and others in:

  • Peace-full Happy Relationships with Self and Others;
  • Flourishing Work/Small Business/Spiritual Life; &
  • Reliably Thriving in the Face of Adversity.

A Certified Facilitator of The Work,  Paradigm Shift Coach, and Published Author/Advocate, Shawn’s latest book, The Reliable Symmetry of Happiness: The ‘Missing Peace’ We Were Never Taught, is forthcoming.  She currently gives workshops, teleseminars, retreats, and works individually with clients from around the world via Phone and Skype (and on the Byron Katie International Helpline)–as well as in-person at Light Landing, her Peaceful Waterfront Retreat on the Chesapeake Bay near Annapolis & Washington, D C.

To read more of Shawn’s story, visit her profile on Byron Katie’s website: http://thework.com/facilitator/shawn-mahshie

To receive Shawn’s writing and news of programs, or to schedule time to meet with Shawn [FREE] and learn more about The Work or her RADICAL RELATIONSHIP RELIEF Group and Individual Intensives, CLICK HERE.

Shawn Mahshie

Paradigm Shift Consultant and
Certified Facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie
ClarityWorks LLC
301-785-0545 (cell, text, and message)
Skype: shawn.myea.mahshie (email first)